Lots of things can change for your elderly loved one when she moves to palliative care and some of them might catch you a little off guard if you’re not prepared.

Drowsiness and Fatigue

Whether it’s due to changes in your loved one’s health conditions or other causes, she’s likely to be a little more drowsy than you might be used to seeing. It’s a good idea to plan activities and visits with other family members for the times of day when your loved one is more awake and alert. You might also want to explain to them what is going on with your loved one so they’re prepared.

Confusion about Place or Time

If your loved one is sleeping a lot off and on, it’s very easy for her to forget for a bit where she is, what day it is, or what time it is. Prepare yourself to give her a gentle reminder now and again or when she seems confused. That can help to alleviate uncertainty for her.

Decreased Appetite

Again, being sleepier than usual might have the effect of reducing your loved one’s appetite. Talk with her doctor about the kinds of foods she should be eating at this time and keep some of her favorite food and drink choices available so that they’re ready when she is.

Incontinence Issues

Depending on your loved one’s health conditions, incontinence and bowel issues may have always been a problem or they could be a new symptom based on this new level of care your loved one is receiving. The best thing to do for her is to help keep her as clean and dry as possible. Special sheets and bedding can help with those issues.

Difficulty Breathing

If your loved one has difficulty breathing, she may need to change her position. You can use pillows to help prop her into a comfortable position that makes it easier for her to breathe. You might also want to get a thermometer for the room that can measure both temperature and humidity. If the humidity dips too low, you can turn on a humidifier to help her breathe.

Your loved one’s palliative care providers are there to help her and you manage all of these symptoms as well as those specific to your loved one’s health conditions.

If you or an aging loved-one are considering palliative care in Upper Darby, PA, please contact the caring staff at Serenity Hospice today. Call (215) 867-5405.